Here’s How to Seduce Anyone…

One A.m. May 3

Yes I am up.

I don’t know why.

With the amount of this bullet drink I have drunk, I should be snorring.

But I am up. Tipsy but not sleepy.

So I figured, I just write you.

My days have been a play of extremes. Extreme pleasure. Extreme anxiety. Dancing this minute, numb/paralyzed/limb and in bed the next.

But overall, my April was beautiful. My life has been beautiful.

How’s yours?

How is life treating you?

How body??(in port-harcourt people’s voice)

On my list of things to tell you about, “ how to seduce” was next.

I have made so many drafts.

Each time I start… , then I stop.

The words don’t just come. Or when they do, it doesn’t sound like me at all.

I am not sure why, and it’s been over a week now.

Maybe seduction isn’t to be written about. Maybe it’s better watched and studied when you see a seductress or a seducer in action.

I don’t know really.

But here’s what I know;

That…;

1.) Seduction is one of the highest forms of power. It’s polished influence.

It’s slowly nudging a person- moving them from a vehement NO! to “maybe” to yes please…

It’s getting a whole human to feel so much pleasure and excitement that they submit to your will without even knowing it.

It’s not entirely limited to sexual relations. Infact, life is one big play and great seducers score the most points.

2.) To seduce a woman, you have to be a very good conversationalist.

And this is not the same as being an orator.

It means that when she leaves a meet up with you she feels heard and understood but she also remembers that you said the most sincere sweetest things she’s heard lately.

3.) To seduce a man, you can’t do without looking like art.

Men are very visual.

But also remember that what the eyes see is interpreted by the brain. So what’s art to your target? What’s his definition of fine?

4.) Self-confidence is such a key element in seduction that if you take it out, you just pulled the plug on the whole thing.

Self-confidence isn’t assertiveness. Not in this case.

The kind that works here is that absolute convinction that you’re interesting and you have so much light to offer that you’d color that person’s life.

5.) That vulnerability is sexy.

But not insecurity.

The difference is that when you’re vulnerable, you let this person see your wounds and battle scars because it’s part of what makes you beautiful, while insecurity is fighting to hide them so much that you appear awkward and apprehensive. I believe you understand.

6.)That you understand that it’s always about them and not you.

People like those who like them.

We are all drawn to those who can help us, people who can fill our needs.

So instead of thinking; “would he like me?” On a date, concentrate your thoughts on discovering this human Infront of you… let him/her talk about what turns them on- goals, dreams,passions, joys, hopes, fears. Be interested in them.

Make this other person feel special, make them feel brilliant.

You would think you did magic.

7.) Don’t judge.

Being heavily critical or self righteous is one sure way to be anti-seductive. If seduction is about pulling people in, an overly critical person pushes them right out the planet from himself.

Finally and maybe most importantly….

8.) Know how to play the distance game.

Give people time to miss you.

No matter how much you’re liked, if you’re always in their face they’d eventually hate you, or at best start to take you for granted.

You know this is true.

There’s a reason diamonds are to die for… while we don’t even bat an eye for gravel.

As supply reduces, demand shoots up.

The idea is not to decidely ghost people… more like cultivate outside interests. Have a life outside this person. It makes you a whole lot more interesting.

Okay, I am going to stop writing now. Maybe I have exhausted all I know on the topic, or maybe it’s because my bullet drink has finished. (By the way, it tastes like spirit mixed in blood tonic… ☹️)

Oh, did I tell you? I got myself new perfumes.

The mid-eastern ones. I heard they’re too good for their prices. So I am trying them out.

So far, it’s living up to the hype and buzz. Especially Lattafa. Especially Lattafa’s Yara. They went above and beyond for that perfume.

Smells like buttercup plus mint ice-cream with marshmallows and other things nice and edible.

You suddenly smell like you’d be just right for dessert. For eating.

Hey…

A big part of enticing or luring is playing with people’s senses.

And if you play with the sense of smell you’d be literally imprinting yourself in this person’s brain.

There’s science behind this and one day I will tell you about it , but today just trust this doctor when she says if you smell good, you’d be unforgettable.

So buy perfumes !!!

Plan to buy a lot when Moxiescents re-opens shop in December 🥳🥳🥳. We are working at making it possible to get a lot at a whole lot better prices.

So…

Save up your coins😊

Alright. This baby girl has to turn in. See you darling.

Stay Jiggy😚

Bye❤️

Signed

Blondie😅